Family Stories
Families come to coaching from different starting points; Partners, Parents, Adult Children, Families seeking reconciliation. Here are a few of their experiences.
CATEGORY 1: PARTNERS AND SPOUSES
Facing a partner’s addiction feels like walking on eggshells. These families focused on stepping onto the solid ground of boundaries and improved communication skills.
“When my spouse developed a serious alcohol problem in his 40s, our lives changed to a constant sense of helplessness: feeling like there was nothing I could do. Through Patrick’s Step Off The Eggshells program, I learned to respond instead of react, communicate more effectively, and take care of myself without controlling or enabling. Things are calmer and I feel more confident and hopeful.” – Spouse P.M.L. of person in recovery, Boston, MA
“I wholeheartedly recommend Patrick for his exceptional coaching support. He has been a blessing to our family, helping us immensely in understanding, navigating, and supporting an addicted family member who has struggled for many years. “
‘”I used to be the ‘bad guy,’ struggling to curb my son’s drinking; which didn’t work. Thanks to Patrick’s Coaching, I’m no longer the enforcer, and I’ve reclaimed my role as a ‘supportive mom’. He showed me a path that fosters growth and positivity. As a result, my son changed his mind and he has stopped drinking! Patrick’s support and insight made all the difference.”
“My son was struggling with life-threatening addiction and we were at our wit’s end. We tried everything, but nothing seemed to work. Then, we found Patrick of Family Addiction Coaching. Patrick’s Coaching was different from the services of anyone else we had worked with; Patrick got results. He helped us change and clarify our approach to one of total compassion, which helped our son turn his life around and we are so grateful. I highly recommend Family Addiction Coaching to any family that is struggling with addiction.”
“Patrick, the Coaching services provided to my family during a very difficult period six years ago were immensely helpful. Our adult daughter’s use of substances, including opioids, had us in total crisis mode at the time. You provided guidance, support, knowledge, understanding and non judgement in equal measure. We thank God for you at that time. We are humbled and grateful to report that our daughter has her health back having been in recovery for six years.”
“In my experience with Patrick, I have found him to be compassionate, resourceful and non-judgmental. His Coaching educated us on all the complexities in the world of addiction, and ultimately we got to the other side of a crisis. When you don’t know where to turn, turn to Patrick.”
“Patrick is a consummate professional: caring, diligent, openminded. All the qualities I would want in a Coach to help me and my family through a crisis (or ideally before the crisis) with a loved one using substances problematically!”
“Patrick’s Coaching work in addiction is comprehensive, his family Coaching model showing his unique skill set, compassion, and dedication. Two of my clients were referred by Patrick after he had provided extensive Coaching support to their families. Patrick’s Coaching helped the families demonstrate compassionate support, which led to family members eagerly pursuing and benefiting from my treatment services. Our shared clients have been extremely grateful for his work. If you have a loved one facing addiction, Patrick is a beacon of hope.”
“I have recently worked with Patrick on a difficult case and what has impressed me most is his ability to be flexible but consistent. What I mean by that is that he is able to adapt to the changing needs of the client and family dynamics as they go through an immensely difficult process, yet he remains firm in holding necessary boundaries and conveying a consistent message of love and caring. This is a very difficult thing to do, but Patrick does it innately. He can help your family.”
“Few Practitioners approach the complex but rewarding challenge of HEALING Families with as much dedication, ethics, integrity and compassion as Patrick. His 360˚ Healing philosophy is not only a testimony to his commitment to empower real and sustainable healing, it demonstrates the calibre of his conviction to support the WHOLE person; enabling healing across the entire family. Rarely have we crossed paths with a Coach who brings as much compassion to the table, balancing his grounded treatment perspective with the very core of medical principles: a deep and abiding faith in the power of the human spirit to heal.”
“I have had occasion to collaborate with Patrick Doyle and find him to be a keen Coach concerned about applying the best science and professional support to the practice of his profession. He looks for wisdom among his colleagues and across disciplines and doesn’t allow his support for serving his clients to be stopped at the limits of his own experience. Patrick studies the experience of others, and importantly, looks for guidance to serve families with complex needs. Patrick is the real deal, a ‘coach’s coach.’ One can count on him to follow through until his client is served. I am pleased to recommend him without reservation.”
“When my family was in crisis, I felt lost and scared. Patrick helped us find expert treatment and psychotherapy quickly. His support and guidance gave us hope and confidence and helped us start our recovery journey. I’m so grateful for Patrick’s help.”